"There is no faith in someone from you until he loves his brother like he loves himself." (Narrated by Bukhari-Muslim from Anas ra).
Very unjustified, a Muslim gave false testimony about his brother's behavior which was not proven true. Here are four groups of believers towards their brothers.
1. Closing the Disgrace of His Brother
Muslim brothers and sisters are not rivals. But Islam teaches to compete in goodness (fastabiqul khairat). When the competition occurs, we often spread the flaws and defects of their siblings, often prejudiced, to the desire to destroy their credibility. Surely it is wrongdoing.
O believers! Stay away from a lot of prejudice, in fact some prejudices are sin, and don't look for other people's mistakes, and don't let any of you gossip on the other. Is there anyone among you who likes to eat the flesh of a dead brother? Of course you feel disgusted. And fear Allah, truly Allah is the recipient of repentance, the Most Merciful. "(Surat al-Hujuraat: 11-12).
As Nuslim, we should close all its shame in the past. "Whoever removes the troubles of a Muslim, Allah will surely eliminate one of his troubles on the Day of Judgment. Whoever closes the shame of a Muslim, surely Allah will close his shame on the Day of Judgment. God always helps a servant as long as he helps his brother. "(Narrated by Muslim).
The person who closes his brother's disgrace will be guaranteed to enter a surge, such as the words of the Prophet (PBUH): "It is not someone who sees the shame of his brother and covers it, unless he will go to heaven." (HR Thabrani).
2. Muslim rights and obligations
It is truly unfortunate, if fellow Muslims do not rebuke their siblings when involved in a dispute. Among them they feel proud if they reprimand first. Even though the size of a cautious person is when he becomes the person who first greets and greets his brother. Not turning to one another.
The Messenger of Allah reminded, "It is not lawful for a Muslim not to greet his brother more than three days and three nights, that is, they meet, then this one turns away and that one turns away. However, the best person is the one who first gives greetings. "(Narrated by Muslim).
After greeting, then compare with other virtues. The Prophet said: "Muslim rights to each other are six, the Prophet was asked," What are they, Rasulullah? He said, "If you meet him say hello, if he invites you to fulfill the invitation, if he asks for advice, give it, if he sneezes then say hamdalah answer, if he is sick, and if he dies, deliver." (HR. Muslim).
In fact, disunnahkan so that fellow Muslims shake hands with each other accompanied by a sincere smile. "There were no two Muslims who met each other and shook hands, but were forgiven for their sins before they separated." (Narrated by Abu Dawud and blessed by Albani).
The rights and obligations of a Muslim to his brother, is to help his distressed brother, instead of praying for something bad to happen to him. The trait of envy and envy is not worthy of being carried by a Muslim. Moreover, intend and to spill the blood of his brother.
From Ibn Umar ra, the Messenger of Allah said: "A Muslim is a brother to another Muslim, may not abuse him and surrender him (to the enemy). Whoever helps the needs of his brother, God will help his needs. Whoever frees the difficulties of a Muslim, Allah will free from him a difficulty between the difficulties on the Day of Judgment. And whosoever covers (defects) his disgrace will be closed later on the Day of Judgment. "(Narrated by Bukhari-Muslim).
Allah SWT affirmed, "Those who want such a very cruel act (false news) to spread among the believers, they get a painful punishment in the world and in the hereafter. And Allah knows, while you do not know. "(QS An Nur: 19).
From Abu Hurairah also he said, the Messenger of Allah said: "Do not mutually despise each other, hate each other hate and turn to one another, and let no one among you sell on the sale of his friend, but be all of you brothers, O servants of Allah. A Muslim is a saduara for other Muslims, may not abuse him, and may not allow him to be insulted and must not be humble. Taqwa is here (pointing to his chest three times). It's enough to be considered acting badly, who despises his other Muslim friends. Every Muslim for other Muslims is haram (respectable) for his blood, his wealth and his honor. "(Narrated by Muslim).
3. Reconciling Disputes
Disputes that occur in association, friendship and movement must not be allowed to continue. If there is a dispute, then there must be parties who want to mediate or reconcile fairly, so that the two disputing and conflicting parties can return side by side.
The occurrence of conflicts and various contradictions until hostility among fellow Muslims is because among them do not have sincerity, or sincerity has been lost from him.
So, when we see disputes among the Muslims, the Messenger of Allah taught his people to reconcile, not instead fight against them to make the dispute even more intense. "Fear you to God and reconcile the dispute between you." (Surat al-Anfal: 1)
And from Umm Kulthum bin ‘Uqbah bin Abu Mu'aith, he said: I heard the Messenger of Allah said:" Not including lying people who reconcile humans, that is, he seeks good or says good. "(Narrated by Bukhari-Muslim)
Remember the word of Allah SWT, when Muslims clash with fellow Muslims: "And if there are two groups of believers fighting, then reconcile the two. If one of the two acts wrongfully against the other (group), then fight (the group) who do wrong, so that the group returns to Allah's command. If the group has returned (to Allah's command), then reconcile the two fairly, and act justly. Indeed, Allah loves those who are just. "(Surat al-Hujuraat: 9).
4. Forgive His Brother
Indeed, the Prophet said: "There are three things that if someone has, he will get God's care, and will be filled with His mercy, and Allah will always put it in the environment of the servants who get His love, namely: someone who is always thankful when God gives favor, someone who is able (to vent his anger) but he forgives for the mistakes of people, and someone who when angry, he stops his anger. "(HR. Hakim).
Forgiving his brother's mistakes is one of the main morals. Like the message of the Prophet Muhammad to his best friend. That is, connecting friendship to the person who severed the relationship with you, gave the person who held back the gift to you, and forgave the person who had wronged you. "(HR. Hakim).
Even in a hadith qudsi Allah says: "O son of Adam, remember Me when you are angry, I will remember you if I am angry (on the Last Day)."
The Prophet again reminded: "Strong people are not those who can defeat the enemy, but strong people are people who can control themselves when angry." (Narrated by Bukhari).
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